( Yeni ) – When a child is born, it is like a blank piece of paper, whatever you draw on it is what it is. So every parent should ‘draw’ intelligently so that their child can grow up to be a useful person.
If a child shows the following 3 signs, it is very likely that he will not be filial in the future. Smart parents should take note as soon as possible:
1. Children have a domineering and defiant personality
Many parents pamper their children and always blame them, which causes their children to develop domineering and defiant personalities.
Once parents do not meet their own requirements, children will conflict with their parents and be filial to them. It is difficult to expect such children to be filial in the future. What about the children who later learn to be filial?
Only children who know how to respect their parents and speak politely to them will know how to be more filial to them when they grow up. Otherwise, it will become a raised “white-eyed wolf”.
Actually, I want to add one more thing: parents’ nagging can easily make children hate them, think that their parents are not worthy of respect, and they will be even more conflicted with their parents.
A child when born is like a blank sheet of paper, whatever you draw on it is what it is. (Illustration)
2. Children are often scolded and beaten
In China there is a saying: “Kun Bang’s younger brother is a filial son”! It implies that filial children are taught by their parents using whips. The fact that children are beaten and scolded by their parents is the educational method of the previous generation. When children make mistakes, parents often use vulgar language and whips with their children.
It is said that after a child makes a mistake, he will have a long memory after one beating, otherwise, that child will not change after many times of teaching. However, beating and scolding children needs to be done in moderation, if the number of times the child is beaten exceeds the child’s tolerance, it will make the child more and more unruly and rebellious.
If everything is resolved by beating and scolding, children will not believe it and will of course confront their parents. When they grow up, their relationship with their parents will not be very harmonious.
Children who are constantly beaten will never be able to erase the wounds in their hearts. Even after getting married and starting a business, they still have gaps in their relationship with their parents, and they will not forgive them easily.
3. Children have the habit of avoiding responsibility
Some children refuse to admit their mistakes and quickly shirk their responsibilities. If parents criticize, they will cry or throw a tantrum.
If a child refuses to admit his mistakes, he will easily become selfish, only think of himself, and will naturally not proactively take on the responsibility of taking care of his elderly parents in the future.
This is the type of child who is arrogant, does not allow others to say that he is not good at all, likes to avoid responsibility when he makes mistakes, and does not admit his own mistakes.
Children who like to avoid responsibility and do not dare to bear the consequences of their words and actions will have difficulty understanding filial piety when they grow up.
Therefore, if you do not want your child to become an unfilial child in the future, you must start from an early age, starting with the rules at the dinner table, and implementing it in an orderly manner.
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