He vaguely realized that he was immersed in a… toxic relationship, because she behaved in a way that couldn’t distinguish between right and wrong…
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This time, like many other arguments, he made up and went into the water to apologize to her first. A man’s inherent generous nature makes him laugh at her petty, childish mistakes. Not because he was afraid of losing her, but because he thought that if two young people loved each other, how could the love end happily?
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He had grown more mature than her during the time they had known each other. At first, he was also resentful and accepting. But then, after each argument, he felt really tired. However, if we lose each other over such trivial things, I don’t think it’s worth it. So, how can you maintain love without feeling resentful? He chose to laugh it off and let it go.
Just like that, he gradually behaved like a mature man. His parents and even their mutual friends were surprised. He grew up so fast, different from the pampered boy he was before. Then when he realized how the whole story was going, everyone thought he had met the right person. The harmony of the right people and the right circumstances makes him develop in a progressive direction.
But in contrast to him, she did more and whined too much after each conflict. He loved her so much that he thought it was worth running after her to apologize. And because she is so beautiful, so lovely, is there any reason for him to show a higher level of service to her?
But, the man’s excessive love makes his shyness become more and more excessive. There was a time when she was clearly wrong, but refused to go down and apologize. She even thought of a way to “punish” him. After each argument, she will block emails, block social networking platforms and disappear without a trace for a while. She wanted to make him crazy so he would spend time and energy looking for her.
While he was confused, she calmly witnessed how hopelessly he was searching for her. And she lives very well when she sees the man she loves is really messed up, because she knows he will endure it for no more than 2 days. The one who speaks first and accepts defeat is always him and she automatically behaves like an arrogant woman, bullying the man who is devoted to her.
Over time, he dimly realized that he was immersed in a… toxic relationship, because she behaved in a way that could not distinguish between right and wrong, and he was automatically turned into a “messenger of peace”. , specializes in being the person who stands up to admit mistakes. He thought he was one level more manly than her, but he didn’t know that that thought was poisoning and harming her as well as their relationship.
He straightened himself out and acted like a principled person. That means for him now, right – wrong, right – left are clear. Whoever makes a mistake must apologize first. He no longer gives her condescension a chance to develop. Just as he predicted, she also did it, without even looking for him. She calmly deleted the memories of the time when the two of them were still passionate on her personal page, and returned to single status just a week after the two of them argued.
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Deep down, he still loves her very much. But the more he loves her, the more strict and principled he must be with her. Instead of chasing after requests, he focused on work and his favorite sports. He pretended not to care about her childish behavior and tested to see how far her stubbornness would develop.
She thinks she has the upper hand so she likes to show off. Less than a month later, she was holding hands with another handsome guy. He was dazed, but then awakened himself. In reality, she doesn’t love him. She only loves herself and likes others to follow and serve her. He was glad that she had taught him a proper lesson.
He spends more time with his parents. How long do they have to live in this world so he can have a chance to show his love? And while with his relatives, he contemplated many things. Respecting the person you love does not mean satisfying them unconditionally.
If you really want the other person to develop, seriously give feedback and point out mistakes so that each person has the opportunity to improve, regardless of any relationship.
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