( Yeni ) – No matter who you are close to, you still need to adhere to the limits between yourself and them. Going beyond the limit can cause unpredictable consequences.
When interacting with each other, people need to follow basic rules to maintain relationships. Violating these rules means crossing boundaries, which can lead to the end of the relationship or even turning into enemies. No matter how good the relationship is, the following principles still need to be followed:
Knowing etiquette is not the same as knowing customs
There is a saying: “Ten miles of different winds, a hundred miles of different customs.” Each locality has its own customs, so before going to a new place, it is very important to learn about customs and practices. Otherwise, more or less, you could be in trouble.
When participating in a ceremony with relatives or friends, it is best to blend into the crowd and avoid favoring someone, avoiding losing emotions. The golden rule needs to be kept in every relationship, crossing the line can turn the relationship into hostility.
There is a saying: “Ten miles of different winds, a hundred miles of different customs.”
Rites must not be lacking, and words must not be careless
No one wants to communicate with people who do not know how to socialize and talk without restraint. When performing rituals, partners attach great importance, so you need to pay attention to how you speak.
When there is an event like a wedding, housewarming, birthday… people will usually invite you first, and you will only come when invited. Meanwhile, funerals often do not have prior invitations, and people come to visit on their own when they hear news of a funeral. These are the rules of social communication that previous generations have set.
For example, in events such as weddings, housewarmings, birthdays… there is often time to prepare and announce in advance. Meanwhile, funerals are often unprepared, with a sad mood and no time to care about other things, which is when people need help the most.
Gentlemen value righteousness, petty men value benefits
Not every rule needs to be followed. For people who only focus on personal gain, no matter how politely you treat them, they just want to take advantage of you.
Relationships between people are like a debt, transferred from one generation to the next. A favor is like a debt, which needs to be repaid and maintained through generations.
Relationships between people are like a debt, transferred from one generation to the next.
Mutual support is natural in human relationships. When there are difficulties, if your family has problems, I will help, and vice versa. When receiving help, the person receiving the help will have to repay the debt. Therefore, the next generation needs to be grateful and remember, and when their partner’s family is in trouble, respect and help, so that the relationship between the two families becomes stronger over time.
Help without causing more trouble, refuse if you can’t
Because we are friends, both sides try their best. It’s natural to actively help each other, but help without creating more trouble for others. At the same time, you also know how to boldly refuse requests that are beyond your capabilities.
In relationships between people, sometimes we need to maintain a “neutral” attitude. To help, you need to know when to step in, and help with ideas, instead of directly interfering in other people’s affairs. The most important thing to note is that you must clarify the issue before expressing your opinion.
The rule “help without causing trouble” can protect you from gossip and getting involved because of the other person’s affairs. Real friends will not “stop hanging out” or give you bad reviews because of this. People who hold grudges because of this show that they are not worthy of continuing to be friends.
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