It is important to understand that narcissism is a sexual identity, on the same level as heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality and asexuality, and has absolutely no perverted meaning.
Recently, I discovered my wife “self-acting” with… herself in the mirror. She later confessed to doing so often. When I researched it, it seemed like my wife was a “narcissist”, but strangely, our relationship in bed still seemed normal…
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Autosexual (sexual obsession/narcissism) is a sexual orientation in which the person is generally only interested in and satisfied with himself. For good reason, autosexuals seek pleasure by making love to themselves.
Of course, they only “have sex” with themselves through masturbation, fantasy or the mirror because their only “partner” is themselves. Masturbation through the mirror is a typical aspect of narcissism.
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That doesn’t mean autosexuals aren’t interested in two-person sex, 100% autosexuality is rare. Most narcissists have “sort of” normal sex lives. They still look for mates, life partners, and children like everyone else, but if they don’t say it out loud, no one will know.
However, because autosexuality is a priority, during sex, they must silently “make love” in their own imagination and especially using a mirror.
Many husbands whose wives are “sexually obsessed with autism” think their wife is demanding without knowing that she is looking at her reflection in the mirror to find satisfaction.
What should I do if I am the husband or wife of an autosexual?
First of all, it is necessary to understand that narcissism is a sexual identity, on the same level as heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality and asexuality, and absolutely does not mean perversion.
Importantly, as stated, an autosexual lady does not criticize sex, does not consider the person on her belly to be a “double” brother. They just take their trends more seriously. They are still attractive in the eyes of their partners even though they quietly hide their secrets.
Narcissistic people often live to let death carry them, and if they say something, things become difficult. At that time, good and evil lay in people’s hearts for hundreds of years. In case the husband decides to live with an autosexual, ultimately he accepts his partner’s narcissism.
The fact that women are narcissistic does not mean that they neglect their responsibilities with their husband and wife, with their pine trees and cypress trees, but sometimes “knowing themselves”, they are many times more devoted than others.
Doctor Do Minh Tuan
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