( Yeni ) – In raising successful children, it is not necessary to have rich parents who will be successful and parents who will make their children love them.
If you are a parent, don’t think that if you just give your child enough money as a stepping stone, he or she will be grateful and will obediently succeed. Please give me the following
If parents are virtuous, their children will be respected
Children who go out on the street and hear others say their parents are immoral, their parents are this or that, how much it will hurt them. Furthermore, if parents are not ethical and make mistakes with others, it will be a disaster for their children. The ancients said that the father’s life is salty and the child’s life is thirsty. On the contrary, parents are virtuous and give good reputation to their children, so wherever they go they are loved more and out of respect for their parents they love them.
If parents are virtuous, their children will be loved
Furthermore, parents are role models and the first teachers, so if parents are moral, their children will also learn that. Behind understanding, civilized children are well-educated parents, and behind “bad” children are often unqualified parents.
Initially, young children imitate their parents’ behavior for safety, then gradually ingrained it into their consciousness and become their personality. Moral education by setting an example is an important part in forming a child’s healthy personality. Cultivating children is not only good for them and their parents, but also for the next life. Living ethically is also a way to reduce enemies and reduce dangers in life.
If parents have foresight, their children will have a bright future
When talking about child care, people use the word nurture. Nurture means to feed, clothe, bathe, wash and clean, nourish means to develop mentally, and nurture.
Parents with foresight can create many different possibilities, allowing children to see their abilities and discover their own values, thereby becoming mentally strong.
Parents have a vision and children have a future
Parental stereotypes determine the child’s vision and attitude towards the world. Being a parent does not mean losing yourself. Parents with a big vision will not put all their heart and soul into their children but give them space to live and think independently so they can have their own future and path.
The purpose of having children and raising children cannot be understood simply as honoring ancestors, making a lot of money, buying a big house. If parents’ vision is limited to this, their children’s role models will also be affected. limit.
The way parents raise can make a big contribution to their child’s future. Children always face many crossroads in their journey to adulthood. At important crossroads in life, parents need to guide their children. At this time, the value of parents’ foresight is most clearly shown. Parents with foresight will plan for their child’s future based on their child’s actual circumstances. Letting children live happily does not mean letting them roam free and just having fun in life. Parents with foresight know how to create conditions for their children to have fun while studying and learn the most necessary things and have direction for their child’s future.
Parents with foresight will not simply and rigidly evaluate their children based on their achievements, but will nurture their interest in learning, discover their children’s strengths, and guide them to continue to improve themselves.
Parents have principles, children have discipline
All parents love their children, but don’t pamper them. If parents have principles, their children will be obedient. If parents do not have principles in educating their children, or have principles but constantly violate them, their children may have many problems in the future.
When children do something wrong, we cannot forgive or break existing rules out of love but should be “cruel”, tough, make them aware and patiently guide them to correct their mistakes. .
Educating children to be conscious and highly disciplined is the way for them to go out into the world stable and mature. The younger the child, the more rational the parents need to be and the more they need to follow the rules. In the face of children’s bad behavior and unreasonable demands, parents must use a firm attitude so that their children clearly understand the boundaries of their behavior.
Many parents just need their children to cry and make noise to meet their requirements. That is the weakness of parents. When parents lower their requirements for their children, they will lose their principles and their children will gradually become spoiled. Besides, when parents set some rules for their children, they must strictly follow them and not violate those rules.
Money is very important, so parents who are busy making money also want their children to have a good future. But remember that the above 3 things are very important related to a child’s life, so whether rich or poor, parents still need to keep the above 3 things.
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