(Yeni) – In resolving family conflicts or raising children, they have the ability to reach consensus and act in unison, from which they can easily find a common voice.
In modern society, the concept of ideal age gap in marriage is always a controversial topic. Some people think that a 3 – 5 year age gap is most appropriate, while others think a 10+ year age gap is ideal.
A new study shows that marriages will be happy when the couple has an age gap of 7 years. So what is the reason behind this finding and what is it based on?
From a psychological and physiological perspective, women often develop both physically and mentally earlier than men. For example, a 22-year-old woman will likely have the same maturity as a 25-year-old man.
Couples of the same age when dealing with issues may encounter some disagreements in opinion. But when the husband is 7 years older than his wife, they will have a higher psychological consensus.
In resolving family conflicts or raising children, they have the ability to reach consensus and act in unison, from which they can easily find a common voice.
Meanwhile, if the husband is younger than the wife, differences in how to handle household chores and educate children can lead to disagreements and arguments.
Economically, the fact that the husband is 7 years older than his wife also brings many benefits.
Usually people start their careers at around 25 years old, only to really develop at around 30 years old. When getting married at the age of 27, the husband already has many years of work experience and has savings, helping the family have a more stable life.
An older husband will also be better able to take on family responsibilities.
Men in their early 20s are often young and romantic, conscious of family responsibilities. But by the age of 27, they gradually realize the need to take care of the family, become more patient and decisive in taking care of their wife and children.
In couples with a small age gap, sympathy and tolerance may not be evident. For women, age is also a factor that cannot be ignored. (illustration)
It seems that a 7-year age gap between husband and wife is really beneficial for family happiness. Whether it is psychological, economic or family responsibilities, this age gap brings positive effects.
However, each relationship is unique and the key to happiness lies in understanding, respect and joint efforts of both parties.
In the family model, the husband who is 7 years older than his wife often shows his tolerance and understanding. When encountering disagreements, he is willing to reconsider and listen patiently to his wife’s point of view.
This maturity is not only demonstrated through deep communication but also through daily actions. He actively participates in housework and puts attention and care into every smallest detail of daily life.
In couples with a small age gap, sympathy and tolerance may not be evident. For women, age is also a factor that cannot be ignored.
For example, if a 28-year-old woman marries and her husband is seven years older, pregnancy and childbirth in the following two to three years not only minimizes health risks but also facilitates stability and maturity. Psychological protection for the family.
If the age gap is too large, for example the husband is 15 years older than the wife, there will be different lifestyles and life perspectives, thereby creating conflicts. So an ideal age gap of 7 years seems like a reasonable balance between the needs and expectations of both parties.
Of course, age difference is just one of many factors that affect marital harmony. Compatibility in personality and outlook on life truly determines the happiness of a marriage.
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