It’s not uncommon for a supporting role to have a lot of acting space, overshadowing the main role, making the girl forget who the sycamore planter is.
We are a group of friends who have been close together since first grade and have now “went up and down the rapids” all the way to high school. My best friend asked me to play a supporting role while he was flirting with girls. Because he didn’t have any intention, he “acted” quite comfortably and naturally, thus winning the girlfriend’s mother’s heart. Slowly, she also liked me, asking me to take her here and there. Up to now, the whole family treats me like a child and is always called upon to do anything in the house. The more I avoid it, the more the whole family tries to get involved, making it difficult for me to think about my best friend…
An anonymous twelfth grade student (District 3, Ho Chi Minh City)
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In the days when love was just budding, many guys were often so confused that they fumbled, faltered, and forgot their lines when approaching the other person. So every time he goes “courting”, he has to use all his rights to help, especially “asking friends and relatives”.
Supporting actors not only have to follow the lineup beautifully but also have to be quick to handle difficult situations, create naturalness and openness when the main character is “frozen” and especially must always be restrained to give the advantage. for the home team. It’s like a “wooden leg” that promptly supports the car when it tilts and almost falls over.
Thanks to their accomplices “pushing the boat”, the couple overcame the initial obstacles and seized their opportunity. Many couples are successful thanks to such “sharpening saw” trips, but sometimes the sticky rice fails.
It’s not uncommon for a supporting role to have a lot of acting space, overshadowing the main role, making the girl forget who the sycamore planter is. She felt that the person who was trying to get to know her was clumsy, silly, and naive, no match for the guy she was with who was always charming, sincere, thoughtful, open, and approachable.
The tragedy of losing the person of your dreams to a close friend happens every day on chat corners or online forums. That’s why there is a “folk song” of young people: “Peel a mango, don’t let it turn sour / Choose a friend, don’t let him be your friend.”
“Sour mango” is when the “supporting role” forgets the role of connecting the two main roles together and instead shows off their personal tactics to make the supporting group stand out above the main group. “Sour mango” is when the subject ignores the main character and completely switches to interacting with the “supporting role” because they feel that this is the person who is confident and attractive to them.
It’s normal for people who are new to love to need the participation of a “wooden leg” to approach the other person, “fun is the main thing”, but if one day the “wooden leg” is chosen to be genuine, it’s a real situation. a bit hard to think about.
According to Dr. Hoa Tieu, if you don’t have any deep feelings for that friend that can be called mutual feelings, then just consider your best friend’s mission has ended and your role has been completed. You can happily tell how your friend liked her and asked you to escort her to her house; Now that things haven’t worked out, I would like to withdraw to comfort my friend who just “failed his 1st choice”. Knowing that their children play together like brothers, surely no mother would say: “Forget it, just let him be sad.”
If you really have serious, sincere feelings for that girlfriend and her family, then you need to clearly express your feelings for your best friend to understand. A long-time close friend will find a way to “have both ways”. Because strictly speaking, she is already your friend’s lover!
Doctor Hoa Tieu
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