( Yeni ) – Filial piety is always the top concern. The responsibility of taking care of your parents when they get old is not everyone’s, so don’t push it on anyone else. When you are 50 years old, your parents will also be 70 or 80 years old.
Parents love their children but not equally
Each of us often evaluates others but does not know how to recognize and evaluate ourselves. Many parents affirm that they treat their children fairly. But in reality it is not like that.
Parents favoring sons is something that happens regularly in many families today. Boys are always given more attention to investing. When they grow up, their parents buy houses and cars for them. Meanwhile, girls go to work and send money home, taking care of their parents, and only get a word of thanks.
Perhaps it is because of this bias that relationships break down. When you turn 50, you need to understand that you must treat your children fairly. Whatever is given must be divided equally, not the heavy side and the light side. As children, we must love each other. Only then will the family become more and more harmonious.
Parents favoring sons is something that happens regularly in many families today. (illustration)
Taking on the responsibility of taking care of elderly parents alone
Filial piety is always the top concern. The responsibility of taking care of your parents when they get old is not everyone’s, so don’t push it on anyone else. When you are 50 years old, your parents will also be 70 or 80 years old.
If at this age you still have parents, that is extremely happy. But in some ways it is also a burden for those who do not have money to save for retirement.
Therefore, taking care of parents must be carefully discussed, so as not to cause parents to be heartbroken.
If at this age you still have parents, that is extremely happy. (illustration)
Over the age of 50, avoid lending money to relatives and friends without being careful and bringing disaster to yourself
Many people have the habit of being respectful, not accidentally rejecting others and then bringing disaster to themselves. Kindness comes not only from the heart but also from respect. Thanks to the thought of respecting relatives and friends, we are willing to lend them money. But kindness is only valuable when placed in the right person at the right time. In this world, there is no shortage of people who, after borrowing money from you, want to avoid paying it back.
Encountering a situation where someone keeps hanging on and doesn’t pay, making appointments from day to month will cause your family’s finances to be affected.
Many people, even though they are over 50 years old, still think of themselves as when they were young, wanting to do everything. (illustration)
Work becomes more and more enthusiastic and more stressful
Many people, even though they are over 50 years old, still think of themselves as when they were young, wanting to do everything. But when you get old, if you like to work hard, you will only bring trouble to yourself. When you turn 50, try to adapt to changes in the workplace. Ask if you don’t know anything, don’t be stubborn and then fall behind. behind.
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