(Yeni) – Each of us has our own opportunities, but they often come from trusted superiors, colleagues, and friends. Therefore, when God gives us an opportunity, we should consider the pros and cons before nodding in agreement.
First: Party with old friends and former colleagues who are not very close
In our relationship circle, we have close, close people but also people who communicate socially. Besides close friends, sometimes we also receive invitations from friends or colleagues we haven’t seen for a long time.
In this case, don’t rush to rejoice. It’s possible that these people don’t want to be close to you, but it’s also possible that they want to ask you for something. After many years of not seeing each other, we gradually lost connection, not knowing how to live together. Suddenly this person contacts you again, surely they have their own reasons and purposes.
In this case, don’t rush to rejoice. (illustration)
Therefore, consider whether or not you should accept the invitation to attend this party. If this friend has previously shown some bad qualities, then certainly a high EQ person will never accept the invitation. They will also consider whether they want to become friends with this friend or not before agreeing to meet.
Second: A ‘free’ party from a stranger
If one day, you suddenly receive a party invitation with conditions from someone you are not close to, be wary. It is very possible that they want to seduce and take advantage of you to do what is in their plan. You should not rush into parties full of plans because of greed.
Each of us has our own opportunities, but they often come from trusted superiors, colleagues, and friends. Therefore, when God gives us an opportunity, we should consider the pros and cons before nodding in agreement.
When they feel truly secure and trust you, they will know how to develop the relationship they have. (illustration)
Sometimes we can also receive attractive invitations and rare opportunities. Some people trust the other person and fall into the trap, harming themselves.
Third, meeting new people
When we first meet someone, we don’t know anything about them. In particular, we do not understand the nature and personality of that person. Therefore, we need to limit meetings and parties with new acquaintances.
After finding out and knowing what that person’s personality is, it’s not too late for us to get close. This is also something people with high emotional intelligence are very concerned about. They will anticipate a situation where this new friend will take advantage of them and will delay the party.
When they feel truly secure and trust you, they will know how to develop the relationship they have.
In modern life, we can fall into many different traps that we do not foresee. Therefore, the best way for each person to protect themselves is to be wary of people they have just met.
If you do not agree to this meeting, you still have the opportunity to meet them next time after thoroughly researching that person and making sure they are trustworthy.
A person is eager to socialize, longs to have certain relationships with others, always wants to attend some parties, gatherings to make connections, which means this person feels inadequate or inadequate. confident in your abilities.
They are very afraid of losing relationships with others in society or being rejected by others, which makes them lonely.
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